The Devotion to Self Ritual
Choose the evening
Three ways into the same evening, and all three of them are for one person: a candle, a long bath, good things for your skin, and a letter you write to yourself and keep. A bath is not essential — a long shower and the same candle does the same job. Everything physical is dispatched together by our specialist fulfilment partner, so the whole evening arrives at once — please order in good time. The ritual guide arrives by email.
What's Included
The Self-Love Evening£45.00
7 pieces in the box · 1 to download · One evening, kept deliberately simple - a candle, a warm bath, something for your skin, and a letter addressed to nobody but you.
In your box 7 pieces, posted to you
- The Ritual Journey The printed Devotion ritual journey The printed ritual journey, with the six stages of the evening on one card
- The Candlelight Romantic Garden Tea and Rose Tin Candle One Tea and Rose soy tin candle, in the Romantic Garden design
- The Bath Treats Cupids Escape Self Care Bath Heart Set The Cupids Escape self care bath heart gift set
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The Body Butter
Geranium Shea Body Butter - 90g
Handmade in the UK SLS, SLES Paraben Free Suitable for vegetarians and vegan Cruelty free Direction for use: Before application cleanse skin in warm-to-hot shower or bath to help open pores.
Handmade in the UK. Suitable for vegetarians and vegan. Cruelty free.
Direction for use: Before application cleanse skin in warm-to-hot shower or bath to help open pores. Gently massage a small dollop of our butter into skin. Allow a few minutes for the butter to sink in before getting dressed.
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The Face Mask
Pink Clay Face Mask - 50g
Pink kaolin clay is a blend of white kaolin clay and red kaolin clay. It contains: Silicium, aluminium, iron, magnesium, sodium, phosphorus, calcium and other trace elements. It helps in stimulating circulation on the skin, exfoliating and cleansing.
It does not draw oil from the skin so it's suitable to use it on dry skin. Also for dehydrated skin.
How to make clay mask. - Mix a small amount of the clay with water or our Floral Water until it forms into a smooth paste. - Apply the clay mask on the face or body and allow it to stand for about 10 to 15 minutes, or until the paste dries. - Rinse with lukewarm water and pat the face dry with a soft towel. - You can even add essential oils to the clay mask for better results.
- The Intention Card The Self-Love Intention Card The printed Self-Love Intention Card, for the word the evening is given
- The Letter Card Love Letter to Yourself card The Love Letter to Yourself card, to write, fold and keep
Yours to download 1 digital piece, nothing to wait for
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The Ritual Guide
Short Devotion to Self ritual guide
The short Devotion to Self ritual guide
Plus your gift message and their name — written into the collection, not posted or downloaded separately.
What's Included
The Devotion Ritual£85.00
14 pieces in the box · 1 to download · A whole evening with room in it: the bath, a private facial with a rose quartz roller, a fragrance chosen for tonight, something warm to drink, and more of the writing.
In your box 14 pieces, posted to you
- The Ritual Journey The printed Devotion ritual journey The printed ritual journey, with the six stages of the evening on one card
- The Candlelight Romantic Garden Tea and Rose Tin Candle One Tea and Rose soy tin candle, in the Romantic Garden design
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The Tea
Rose Hip and Hibiscus Infusion - 50g
With Fruit of the Forest. Mixed Blackberry, Cherry, Raspberry and Strawberry is a deliciously full-flavoured blend of summers. Our Tea Masters select 100% natural ingredients to create this blend.
A bed of rose hips, cut hibiscus and apples, sets the scene for our favourite late summer berries and hibiscus flowers. USE: 4 grams per 200 ml at 95 C for and let stand for 5-7 minutes. This product may contain traces of gluten, eggs, peanuts, soy, milk, nuts, sesame grains and sulphites.
- The Bath Treats Cupids Escape Self Care Bath Heart Set The Cupids Escape self care bath heart gift set
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The Body Butter
Geranium Shea Body Butter - 90g
Handmade in the UK SLS, SLES Paraben Free Suitable for vegetarians and vegan Cruelty free Direction for use: Before application cleanse skin in warm-to-hot shower or bath to help open pores.
Handmade in the UK. Suitable for vegetarians and vegan. Cruelty free.
Direction for use: Before application cleanse skin in warm-to-hot shower or bath to help open pores. Gently massage a small dollop of our butter into skin. Allow a few minutes for the butter to sink in before getting dressed.
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The Face Mask
Pink Clay Face Mask - 50g
Pink kaolin clay is a blend of white kaolin clay and red kaolin clay. It contains: Silicium, aluminium, iron, magnesium, sodium, phosphorus, calcium and other trace elements. It helps in stimulating circulation on the skin, exfoliating and cleansing.
It does not draw oil from the skin so it's suitable to use it on dry skin. Also for dehydrated skin.
How to make clay mask. - Mix a small amount of the clay with water or our Floral Water until it forms into a smooth paste. - Apply the clay mask on the face or body and allow it to stand for about 10 to 15 minutes, or until the paste dries. - Rinse with lukewarm water and pat the face dry with a soft towel. - You can even add essential oils to the clay mask for better results.
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The Soft Sponge
Lavender Konjac Heart Sponge
Japanese Konjac Sponge. This 100% natural sponge has a soft texture, a natural facial and body cleansing sponge made out of vegetable fibers of Konjac root.
This 100% natural sponge has a soft texture, a natural facial and body cleansing sponge made out of vegetable fibers of Konjac root. The Konjac Sponge has been used in Japan first as a bath sponge for newborn babies for more than 100 years because of its soft texture.
Due to the popularity the Konjac Sponge has been on the rise as facial cleansing and bath sponge in China, Southeast Asia and Europe. These Konjac Sponges have a unique propriety layer that can hold water very well. When the sponge is saturated with water, its surface is covered by a water layer.
This water layer on the sponge's surface constantly acts as a buffer to the skin and the layer forms a barrier between the sponge and the skin. As a result, the skin is never in direct contact with the fiber and it will not scratch and damage the skin even with hard scrubbing.
- The Face Roller Rose Quartz Mini Face Roller A small rose quartz face roller each
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The Rose Soaps
Wild Rose Heart Soaps, set of 3
Our own little heart shaped guest soaps will make a wonderful addition to your bathroom. They are colourful and smell great! Guest Soaps weight approx 20 grams each and measure approx 45x40mm. Our Guest Soaps are also SLS and Paraben free.
Our own little heart shaped guest soaps will make a wonderful addition to your bathroom. They are colourful and smell great! Guest Soaps weight approx 20 grams each and measure approx 45x40mm.
Our Guest Soaps are also SLS and Paraben free.
- The Fragrance Roll-On Fine Fragrance Oil - 10ml One 10ml roll-on fine fragrance oil
- The Intention Card The Self-Love Intention Card The printed Self-Love Intention Card, for the word the evening is given
- The Ritual Cards Extended Self-Love ritual cards The extended Self-Love ritual cards
- The Reflection Card My Beautiful Things reflection card The My Beautiful Things reflection card, with room for five
- The Letter Card Love Letter to Yourself card The Love Letter to Yourself card, to write, fold and keep
Yours to download 1 digital piece, nothing to wait for
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The Ritual Guide
Full Devotion to Self ritual guide
The full Devotion to Self ritual guide
Plus your gift message and their name — written into the collection, not posted or downloaded separately.
What's Included
The Pure Indulgence Ritual£135.00
22 pieces in the box · 1 to download · The abundant one - the larger Tea and Roses candle with the matching bath fizzer, rose bath bombs, a sugar scrub, soap flowers to arrange, a rose quartz bracelet to choose a meaning for, and the whole ritual printed rather than emailed.
In your box 22 pieces, posted to you
- The Ritual Journey The printed Devotion ritual journey The printed ritual journey, with the six stages of the evening on one card
- The Printed Guide Printed Devotion to Self ritual guide The full printed ritual guide, one chapter for each stage
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The Candlelight
Tea and Roses Votive Candle - 490g
Soft, floral and gently comforting, Tea & Roses blends delicate rose notes with a calm, clean freshness. It’s a soothing fragrance that feels elegant and familiar, perfect for quiet evenings, bedrooms, or relaxed living spaces.
Soft, floral and gently comforting, Tea & Roses blends delicate rose notes with a calm, clean freshness. It’s a soothing fragrance that feels elegant and familiar, perfect for quiet evenings, bedrooms, or relaxed living spaces.
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The Tea
Rose Hip and Hibiscus Infusion - 50g
With Fruit of the Forest. Mixed Blackberry, Cherry, Raspberry and Strawberry is a deliciously full-flavoured blend of summers. Our Tea Masters select 100% natural ingredients to create this blend.
A bed of rose hips, cut hibiscus and apples, sets the scene for our favourite late summer berries and hibiscus flowers. USE: 4 grams per 200 ml at 95 C for and let stand for 5-7 minutes. This product may contain traces of gluten, eggs, peanuts, soy, milk, nuts, sesame grains and sulphites.
- The Bath Treats Cupids Escape Self Care Bath Heart Set The Cupids Escape self care bath heart gift set
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The Bath Bombs
Rose and Petals Bath Bombs, set of 3
A romantic bath bomb set created for slow, indulgent moments. This set includes three matching bath bombs, each weighing approximately 180g, finished in a rich rose-pink tone and topped with real rose petals for a beautifully handcrafted…
A romantic bath bomb set created for slow, indulgent moments. This set includes three matching bath bombs, each weighing approximately 180g, finished in a rich rose-pink tone and topped with real rose petals for a beautifully handcrafted look.
- The Bath Fizzer Tea and Roses Bath Fizzer One Tea and Roses bath fizzer
- The Body Scrub Strawberry Rum Sugar Body Scrub - 500g One 500g tub of Strawberry Rum fragranced sugar body scrub
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The Body Butter
Geranium Shea Body Butter - 90g
Handmade in the UK SLS, SLES Paraben Free Suitable for vegetarians and vegan Cruelty free Direction for use: Before application cleanse skin in warm-to-hot shower or bath to help open pores.
Handmade in the UK. Suitable for vegetarians and vegan. Cruelty free.
Direction for use: Before application cleanse skin in warm-to-hot shower or bath to help open pores. Gently massage a small dollop of our butter into skin. Allow a few minutes for the butter to sink in before getting dressed.
-
The Face Mask
Pink Clay Face Mask - 50g
Pink kaolin clay is a blend of white kaolin clay and red kaolin clay. It contains: Silicium, aluminium, iron, magnesium, sodium, phosphorus, calcium and other trace elements. It helps in stimulating circulation on the skin, exfoliating and cleansing.
It does not draw oil from the skin so it's suitable to use it on dry skin. Also for dehydrated skin.
How to make clay mask. - Mix a small amount of the clay with water or our Floral Water until it forms into a smooth paste. - Apply the clay mask on the face or body and allow it to stand for about 10 to 15 minutes, or until the paste dries. - Rinse with lukewarm water and pat the face dry with a soft towel. - You can even add essential oils to the clay mask for better results.
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The Soft Sponge
Lavender Konjac Heart Sponge
Japanese Konjac Sponge. This 100% natural sponge has a soft texture, a natural facial and body cleansing sponge made out of vegetable fibers of Konjac root.
This 100% natural sponge has a soft texture, a natural facial and body cleansing sponge made out of vegetable fibers of Konjac root. The Konjac Sponge has been used in Japan first as a bath sponge for newborn babies for more than 100 years because of its soft texture.
Due to the popularity the Konjac Sponge has been on the rise as facial cleansing and bath sponge in China, Southeast Asia and Europe. These Konjac Sponges have a unique propriety layer that can hold water very well. When the sponge is saturated with water, its surface is covered by a water layer.
This water layer on the sponge's surface constantly acts as a buffer to the skin and the layer forms a barrier between the sponge and the skin. As a result, the skin is never in direct contact with the fiber and it will not scratch and damage the skin even with hard scrubbing.
- The Face Roller Rose Quartz Mini Face Roller A small rose quartz face roller each
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The Rose Soaps
Wild Rose Heart Soaps, set of 3
Our own little heart shaped guest soaps will make a wonderful addition to your bathroom. They are colourful and smell great! Guest Soaps weight approx 20 grams each and measure approx 45x40mm. Our Guest Soaps are also SLS and Paraben free.
Our own little heart shaped guest soaps will make a wonderful addition to your bathroom. They are colourful and smell great! Guest Soaps weight approx 20 grams each and measure approx 45x40mm.
Our Guest Soaps are also SLS and Paraben free.
- The Soap Flowers Pink Rose and Carnation Soap Flowers One pink rose and carnation soap flower bouquet
- The Fragrance Roll-On Fine Fragrance Oil - 10ml One 10ml roll-on fine fragrance oil
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The Keepsake Bracelet
Rose Quartz Bracelet
These classic stylish bracelets are fast coming back into fashion. Great to mix and match they look so cool. Very comfortable to wear, chip stones are polished so they will not make any harm to your skin.
Bracelets are perfect for any wrist. Brace your self for a great deal.
- The Intention Card The Self-Love Intention Card The printed Self-Love Intention Card, for the word the evening is given
- The Keepsake Card The Treasure of Self keepsake card The Treasure of Self keepsake card, to keep with the bracelet
- The Ritual Deck The Devotion Ritual deck The extended Devotion Ritual deck, to keep and come back to
- The Reflection Card My Beautiful Things reflection card The My Beautiful Things reflection card, with room for five
- The Sealed Letter Sealed Love Letter to Yourself The Love Letter to Yourself, with a sealed envelope to keep it in
- The Promise Card The Future Self promise card The Future Self promise card, for one promise worth keeping
Yours to download 1 digital piece, nothing to wait for
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The Ritual Guide
Complete Pure Indulgence ritual guide
The complete Pure Indulgence ritual guide
Plus your gift message and their name — written into the collection, not posted or downloaded separately.
Buying this for somebody else? Tell us their first name, your own name and anything you would like the gift message to say. Buying it for yourself is just as normal — leave this blank and nothing is printed. You can still add it later from your basket.
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A luxurious self-love ritual devoted entirely to indulgence, softness and treating yourself as somebody worth cherishing.
Not every Valentine story needs two people. This is one evening turned into a private sanctuary: warm candlelight, a long bath, good things for your skin, a fragrance chosen for no reason at all, and a letter you write to yourself and keep.
There is nothing to achieve, nothing to improve and nothing to fix. It is simply an evening of giving yourself the same tenderness, generosity and attention you give other people without thinking about it. This evening is for anybody who wants it, whether or not there is somebody else in the picture.
You are worthy of your own time, tenderness and beautiful things.
The three editions
The Self-Love Evening — £45.00
The Self-Love Evening opens a doorway into soft candlelight, affection and intimate ritual. Created as part of The Devotion to Self Ritual, this edition invites you to make self-care feel less like maintenance and more like devotion, with tenderness, beauty and deliberate attention at the centre - but the real sequence is kept for the moment the box is open and the room has gone quiet. One evening, kept deliberately simple - a candle, a warm bath, something for your skin, and a letter addressed to nobody but you. Expect a carefully layered mix of sensory details, reflective prompts and meaningful objects, including hints of Romantic Garden Tea and Rose Tin Candle, Cupids Escape Self Care Bath Heart Set, and Geranium Shea Body Butter - 90g. We will not tell you exactly what each one becomes. Some parts are better discovered in candlelight.
The Devotion Ritual — £85.00
The Devotion Ritual opens a doorway into soft candlelight, affection and intimate ritual. Created as part of The Devotion to Self Ritual, this edition invites you to make self-care feel less like maintenance and more like devotion, with tenderness, beauty and deliberate attention at the centre - but the real sequence is kept for the moment the box is open and the room has gone quiet. A whole evening with room in it: the bath, a private facial with a rose quartz roller, a fragrance chosen for tonight, something warm to drink, and more of the writing. Expect a carefully layered mix of sensory details, reflective prompts and meaningful objects, including hints of Romantic Garden Tea and Rose Tin Candle, Rose Hip and Hibiscus Infusion - 50g, and Cupids Escape Self Care Bath Heart Set. We will not tell you exactly what each one becomes. Some parts are better discovered in candlelight.
The Pure Indulgence Ritual — £135.00
The Pure Indulgence Ritual opens a doorway into soft candlelight, affection and intimate ritual. Created as part of The Devotion to Self Ritual, this edition invites you to make self-care feel less like maintenance and more like devotion, with tenderness, beauty and deliberate attention at the centre - but the real sequence is kept for the moment the box is open and the room has gone quiet. The abundant one - the larger Tea and Roses candle with the matching bath fizzer, rose bath bombs, a sugar scrub, soap flowers to arrange, a rose quartz bracelet to choose a meaning for, and the whole ritual printed rather than emailed. Expect a carefully layered mix of sensory details, reflective prompts and meaningful objects, including hints of Tea and Roses Votive Candle - 490g, Rose Hip and Hibiscus Infusion - 50g, and Tea and Roses Bath Fizzer. We will not tell you exactly what each one becomes. Some parts are better discovered in candlelight.
Safety and responsible use
The bath treats, the bath bombs, the fizzer, the face mask, the sponge, the scrub, the body butter, the soaps and the fragrance oil are skin and bath products: use each one only as its own label directs, and stop if it causes irritation or discomfort. Patch-test if skin is sensitive. None of them is a medicine or a treatment. If you are pregnant, breastfeeding, being treated for a skin condition or taking prescribed medication, check the pack before use.
The candles:
- Never leave a burning candle unattended.
- Keep away from children and pets.
- Keep away from draughts, curtains and flammable materials.
- Place on a stable, heat-resistant surface.
- Do not move while lit or while wax is hot.
- Extinguish fully before leaving the room or going to sleep.
- Follow the candle manufacturer's burn-time and wick instructions.
- Do not take a bath by candlelight alone, and never leave a flame burning while bathing or dozing.
- Bath treats, scrubs and butters make a bath and its surfaces slippery. Take care getting in and out.
- The face mask and the sponge are for the face; the scrub and the body butter are for the body, not the face. None of them is for use on broken skin.
- The fragrance oil is for the skin, not for the bath water, and not for the face.
- The soaps and soap flowers are soap. They are not confectionery and they are not decoration for a table where somebody might pick one up and bite it.
- The bracelet and the face roller are not toys and are not for children. Small stone chips are a choking hazard.
- Keep every item, and all packaging, away from babies, children and pets.
- Retain the manufacturer’s packaging and instructions.
Follow the original instructions supplied with every item. Do not ingest, inhale, burn, heat, apply to the skin or place any item in food, drink or bathwater unless the manufacturer's packaging expressly confirms that use. Keep candles, small objects, fragranced products and packaging away from children and pets. Never leave a flame unattended. Stop using any product that causes irritation or discomfort.
What this is, and what it is not
This is a candle, some things for the bath, some things for your skin, a fragrance, a small stone and a handful of printed cards, put together so that one ordinary February evening has a shape to it. It does not know anything about you and it does not do anything to you. What it can do is take an evening out of a month that has none, furnish it properly, and leave somebody with a page of their own handwriting and one object they decided meant something.
For comfort, personal reflection and gifting. It does not provide medical or psychological advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, prevent or alleviate any physical or mental health condition. It must not replace professional advice, medication or treatment, and it is not a substitute for support from someone qualified to give it. No outcome is promised or guaranteed.
This collection is designed for imaginative storytelling, spiritual expression and personal reflection. It does not provide medical or psychological advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, prevent or alleviate any physical or mental health condition. It must not replace professional advice, medication or treatment. No particular spiritual, therapeutic or other outcome is promised or guaranteed.